Have you ever suffered humiliation? Probably. I know from personal experience that it's definitely no fun.
Once, when I was in seminary, I was asked by a professor to lead one of his classes. (I can't recall the reason he happened to be away that day.) It was a discussion-type setting and our subject was leadership in the church. As I was talking with the class, I happened to use the expression "you guys" several times. Suddenly, a black female student interrupted me and with an angry glare said sternly, "Excuse me! Dr. Smith doesn't allow us to use that kind of language here." Evidently she took offense at my lack of gender inclusiveness. But the way I was using the word (at least, to my mind) was completely inclusive. I didn't intend any disrespect whatsoever. It was simply the way I had always talked and heard others talk. But suddenly I was informed that such speech was offensive and wrong.
Right there in front of the whole class, I felt hugely humiliated.
[As you might imagine, I've been sensitive to the use of "you guys" in mixed-gender settings ever since. However, over the years I've noticed time and again on television (for example) that men and women together are frequently referred to in this manner. I've even heard female news anchors ask female guests, "So what do you guys think about what the senator is saying?" Hmm. You know, I've decided that it'd be extremely helpful if some folks among us would simply follow the words of that great American army philosopher, Sgt. Hulka, and "Lighten up!"]
According to Webster's, to humiliate is "to hurt the pride or dignity of by causing to be or seem foolish or contemptible." Recalling a time that you may have suffered humiliation, consider this from church historian, Bruce Shelley:
"Christianity is the only major religion to have as its central event the humiliation of its God. 'Dear dying Lamb,' believers sing, 'thy precious Blood shall never lose its power, Till all the ransomed Church of God be saved to sin no more.' Crucifixion was a barbarous death, reserved for agitators, pirates, and slaves. Jewish law cursed 'everyone who hangs on a tree' and the Roman statesman, Cicero, warned: 'Let the very name of the cross be far, not only from the body of a Roman citizen, but even from his thoughts, his eyes, his ears.'"
And yet, for us and for our salvation, our Savior suffered this unspeakable humiliation!
How thankful we should be as his people ... and how ready to suffer humiliation ourselves for his sake ... and how ready to let whatever humiliation befalls us in this life simply roll off our backs!
Greg
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